Polacco, Patricia. 2009. In our mothers’ house. New York: Philomel Books. ISBN 9780399250767.
PLOT SUMMARY:
A woman describes the lively childhood she spent growing up with two loving mothers, adopted siblings, a festive extended family, and friendly neighbors.
CRITICAL ANALYSIS:
Although the author seems to aim at creating a joyful atmosphere, she overshoots her goal; the story comes off a little too sappy sweet. In every memory, the family is completely cheerful and loving. The only intrusion into their idyllic happiness is a homophobic neighbor who verbally attacks them at a neighborhood party. Although it would be wonderful if families could achieve a perfect state of harmony, I have yet to meet a single family who accomplishes that goal. Including some memories of sibling rivalry or teen rebellion would have given this book a feeling of authenticity that it lacks. The illustrations reflect the text’s exuberant spirit. The constant laughing expressions and waving hands feels a little overdone, particularly when contrasted with the horrified expressions on the page describing the neighbors attack.
The topic of same-sex parents is handled in a straight-forward, but appropriately innocent manner. The narrator describes her two mothers and their relationship just as casually as one would describe a typical mother-father relationship: “Our mothers were so different from each other that all of us often wondered how they found each other at all.” Although the book’s message (that a family with same-sex parents can be happy and accepted) is delivered a little heavily, it is still a cheerful book that will entertain readers.
REVIEWS:
School Library Journal: Is this an idealized vision of a how a gay couple can be accepted by their family and community? Absolutely. But the story serves as a model of inclusiveness for children who have same-sex parents, as well as for children who may have questions about a "different" family in their neighborhood. A lovely book that can help youngsters better understand their world.
CONNECTIONS:
Children and their parents who are interested finding more picture books that include same-sex couples may enjoy:
Uncle Bobby’s Wedding by Sarah S. Brannen
And Tango Makes Three by Justin Richardson
A Tale of Two Daddies by Vanita Oelschlager
Daddy, Papa, and Me by Leslea Newman